What's in my Diaper Bag

Photos | Jessica Rediker

First off, let me say, that I'm not a fan of diaper bags. If I could, I would carry as little as possible with me - enough to fit in a small purse. I'm talking; diapers, wipes, done! But I haven't yet figured out how to get to that point. So, here's what I've been carrying around with me (along with two kids).

1. The Bag

I love the practicality of actual diaper bags; all the pockets, holders and special compartments. But I find it difficult to find a style of diaper bag that I love at a price point that I equally love. Instead, I've been using bags or purses that are large enough to hold what I need. This one (in photo), I found on clearance at H&M. 

Sure, you might wonder what my husband thinks about carrying around a somewhat feminine diaper bag. My husband and I have had that discussion, but in the end, we came to the conclusion that I'm the one who carries the "stuff" around 99% of the time - so it became a non-issue.

2. Diapers & Wipes (of course)

I make sure not to pack too many diapers. I try to bring only as many as I'll need for the day. 

3. Small Blanket

When I'm out with the kids, I don't always know where we'll end up or what the weather will be. Sometimes it can be really hot outside, but if we got into the mall, it can be freezing. There's so many ways to use a blanket: for shade from the sun (while in the stroller), emergency burp cloth, or for the baby to lay in the grass. You can't go wrong with packing a small blanket. 

4. Sippy Cup

My two-year old is ALWAYS thirsty. Especially in the heat we've been experiencing, it pays to have a sippy cup with us.

5. Snacks

On occasion, when I'm at the store or an appointment and Averie is close to losing it, snacks have been my saviour. Being hangry is a real thing for toddlers. To avoid being stranded without any food, I always try to take some little treats along with me. It could be fruit snacks, granola bars, raisins, fruit, or crackers. I try not to pack anything too messy but small enough that she can hold it herself. 

6. Activities or Toys

It's a fact that kids can only last so long in a stroller, a car, or when asked to sit still. It definitely doesn't hurt to have some tricks up your sleeve to entertain them. I have a small toy clipped onto Remi's car seat for times when he needs a distraction. For Averie, I bring crayons and a colouring book or some stories to read, depending on where we're going. I've also found that those small bottles of bubbles, that you sometimes get at weddings, are great to throw in your bag. They're compact and create a minimal mess if spilt.

7. My Stuff

Of course mama has to bring some of HER stuff too. Out of all the many kids things I carry around, I still like to bring some of my things. I usually have some lipstick or lip balm, hair ties and pins (you never know when you'll need to transition to "mom bun"), and hand sanitizer. To prevent my things from getting scattered all over the bag, I keep it all in a nice, little, zippered purse. Having all my things in one location also makes it easy to grab and go - should I get a moment to myself. 

Mom-to-mom, what are some of your diaper bag 'must haves'?